Theoretically, making children happy is an easy task, but in reality, it is a difficult task. You can buy an attractive toy, a sweet candy, or a colorful picture book for kids. You can even take your baby to an amusement park, and sometimes lull the child to bring a sweet smile on the face.
It is, no doubt, true that all these initiatives must bring immediate smiles and happiness to the child, but these can’t be permanent solutions to promote happiness in children. Moreover, there are no fixed rules that can define a set of factors to promote feelings of happiness and disposition in babies. However, several significant studies have described some valuable facts regarding this matter.
But, frankly speaking, understanding child psychology is not so easy, and parents are the best discoverers of that psychology. They can identify what activities can help their children to remain happy. And, for centuries, some common factors play roles to promote that feeling of happiness and molding the disposition in kids.
Good relationships between parents and their children are always regarded as the prime factor behind continuing happiness. One should understand that happiness in infants begins from here.
There is no denying that keen attachment between child and parent explores a long-lasting impact in molding a kid’s confidence as well as self-assurance. It even helps the baby in shaping a general concept with positive expectations about other people.
Now, one important thing is a keen or secure attachment must bring severe uneasiness and discomfort in kids when they see their parents are leaving. They feel real comfort when they see their parents return to them. Notably, in some cases, insecure babies don’t react similarly to secure ones.
In conclusion, secured children have a consistently positive attitude, which helps them in building a friendly atmosphere with relatives and friends in later years. Also, this positive attitude helps to grow as ideal parents who can establish deep attachments with their infants.
Apart from a good relationship, another important factor behind happiness is getting the thing or achieving the goal that they are good at or efficient. Every individual, whether it is an adult or a child, always has some skills, and when they get appreciation from others, especially from their parents and the close ones, they have the feeling of most adorable happiness.
It is undeniable that appreciation is necessary to help grow a sense of positivity in children and helps in achieving many goals in future years.
However, excessive appreciation sometimes makes them obstinate, which explores a negative tendency in them whenever they fail to achieve something. The said viewpoint may create a sense of depression in future life.
Another essential part that contributes to disposition in kids is the genetic factor. It emerges as one key ingredient, perhaps in all children, to shape the personality both in the early years and in later years. It is unquestionably true that the genetic trait is heritable, and some kids become extroverted or introvert due to this reason. One important thing is being extroverted means being happy.
The financial condition can also be a great contributor to happiness and disposition in the child. A common concept is infants of rich backgrounds are happier compared to one with deprived backgrounds. However, the said theory is not every time applicable. Because, increment in wealth doesn’t always enhance happiness, although a well-to-do background does bring some strong possibilities to explore positive attitude from childhood days.